“It’s
going to be a great day.”
This
has been my motto every day for the past month or so now. It all started one morning when I strolled
downstairs to the breakfast table at Antioch (the house I live in with Saint
Paul’s Outreach at Ohio State). It’s not
easy to wake up at 6 AM most days of the week and feel joyful doing it, but
this particular day was different. My
heart was singing a song of joy and gratitude.
My SPO brothers immediately broke out in grins and eyerolls that screamed, “Here we
go again. Cory’s being goofy.”
This
same attitude continued for the remainder of the week. By the next Monday, I didn’t feel the
same joy that made it easy to be optimistic about the day before it even
started. Regardless, I put on a smile
and said, “It’s going to be a great day.”
Shortly
after, I helped lead a Life Teen retreat with a parish I routinely serve at
during the school year. Before any teens
had arrived, everything that could go wrong did go wrong. There was distress and heartbreak. My natural response after offering whatever
assistance I could was to remind the youth minister, Maggie, that it was going
to be a great weekend and this wouldn’t change that.
The
next week, waking up joyful was nearly impossible. I was tired, stressed, and overwhelmed with schoolwork
and other responsibilities. As I rolled
out of bed, I caught myself thinking, “This day is going to be awful.”
Immediately after, I corrected myself. “It’s
going to be a great day,” I said.
I
share this story because God has blessed me tremendously the past month and
taught me an important lesson that I think all Christians can learn from – the
lesson of choosing joy whether you feel like it or not.
Christian
joy is powerful because it is both an incredible outward witness to those we
encounter each day and an anchor for our disposition towards Christ. Yes, joy is an emotion and emotions are
fleeting. However, an authentic
encounter with Jesus should spurn in our hearts a gratitude for who He is and
all He has done for us. In this sense, joy
becomes a decision reflecting praise for how the Lord has worked in our lives. Joy for the Lord is a contagious joy.
When
I make the conscious decision each morning to say, “It’s going to be a great
day,” this doesn’t imply that I feel good about the day; rather, it’s an
outward projection of my faithfulness to Christ and my decision to be grateful
regardless of the trials I may face that day.
Sirach
2:1-2 says, “My child, when you come to serve the Lord, prepare yourself for
trials. Be sincere of heart and
steadfast, and do not be impetuous in times of adversity.”
This
is the heart of our decision to live joyfully each day. God promises us that we will face hardship. Some days are more difficult than others, but
we are called to remain steadfast – that is, to stand firm – in our resolution
to follow Christ, especially when things do become challenging. We show God our level of commitment to Him by
how we respond to adversity.
Another
important lesson I've learned recently is the influence our first decision each
day has on the outcome of our day as a whole.
If, as disciples, our first thought each morning is one of pessimism and
disdain, odds are the rest of our day will be affected by this initial thought. It makes the meaning of "waking up on
the wrong side of the bed" a reality for us.
I
understand not everyone is a morning person and by no means am I implying that
a single negative thought means someone is in the wrong. I do, however, think it is something to be
consciously aware of as we go throughout our day. Ask yourself periodically: Is my heart
oriented towards Christ or am I giving too much power to the desires of the
flesh which are contrary to those of God's (Galatians 5:17)?
I
leave you with a few lyrics from a song written by a good friend of mine that
reflects a heart oriented toward God in good times and in bad:
"Waking up singing that song on
the radio,
Never gonna stop singing praise to
the Father who,
Gave His only Son so that I could be
made new.
Never gonna stop, never gonna stop.
Jumping up and down with the joy
that's inside of me,
Singing this song, a love for
eternity,
How could I ever deny what's a part
of me?
Never gonna stop."
Choosing
joy every morning is rarely the easy thing to do, but Christ conquered death
and gave us the freedom to rise above the temptation to be bitter and have a
negative outlook on life. He desires for
us to choose Him even when the inclinations of our flesh would rather we focus
on ourselves.
Remember,
it's going to be a great day.